Philosophy

Everything has a beginning, just the same as everthing eventually comes to an end. Now that is a fact that nobody can disagree with. But when it comes to defining these moments most of uss take different turns down the road, and make different conclusions about it.

I’m gonna take an example that we all can relate to; Love.
It’s something that everyone has or is going to experience atleast one time during their existance. Now, let uss define Love, to start with.
Love is when two people (or more) share a feeling about the other (or others) that you can’t really express. It’s a constant longing for intimisy and a fond memory of someones looks, the sound of their voice or even the smell of their hair. When you have this emotion for someone, you want to feel their arms around you and their heart close to yours. A phenonemon was born out of this longing, It’s what we call kissing. Wich in fact is the most recognizable sign of love.

So, after clearing that up, let uss continue towards the main part, when does love start?
One person can feel and express love at their part, but you need two people to actually call it In love. Like; They are in love with eachother. Otherwise it would have been; He/She Loves him/her.
So, when we continue through this. We’ll accept previus stated appendice, just to be sure that we’re talking about the same thing.

This thing that is called love, at this point we’ve established that there needs to be two counterparts, feeling the same for eachother. Is it when you know the other persons feeling that you actually call it love or is it when an act of love have occured? Like making love or a kiss.
I know that for some reason, in my past relationships i haven’t really called it love before an act of love have been expressed, even though i’ve had the feeling a long time before that.

It’s a good question, and i think we’ll continue to wonder about that for the same amount of time it takes to live a life.

To the most important and sometimes hurting parts; The end.
When does love end?
As we stated before love starts when two people share this feeling and is counted as love when you’ve actually expressed it through an act of love.
So, when two people break up, the first thing that is stated is an act of not loving eachother anymore, you either tell the person about your lack of feeling or you start looking for someone else to share the feeling with, even if it only comes to the making love-part.
But it’s often just one person that is lacking the feeling, not two. So, did the love really end?

Well offcourse, since love is something that two must share, then i guess that’s the case.

I’m sorry for the inappropriate header or start of post, i guess it really was quite simple after all…